Outdated rules for dating
It might have been imprinted in your brain that every relationship has to “lead somewhere”.
That “somewhere” in other people’s mind usually means the altar. But this kind of relationship might not be what you envision for yourself right now. And if something you want involves seeing what’s out there, trying online dating, or simply having fun, then go for it. In today’s world, it is nearly impossible to live in a vacuum and not develop an opinion on at least some political and social issues.
But presenting him with a set of several years down the road when the circumstances call for it is perfectly fine. When looking for someone to date long-term or at least to have a fun time with, the last you want to do is to pretend to be someone you are not.
So do all those “be mysterious”, “act hard to get”, or “act interested even if you’re not” rules actually make sense? You can always work on how you present yourself and become better at navigating the deep waters of dating.
Some of them were quite reasonable, others not so much.
You have definitely heard of some iteration of this rule.
I’d be rich by now if I got paid every time I overheard someone say, “Guys love the chase.” What if I don’t want to be chased? Asking another person out shouldn’t depend on your gender.
If you want to kiss your date first, go ahead and kiss away.
It’s time to bring an end to these saying once and for all.
Here’s to keeping an open mind when it comes to the dating world and not putting everyone into a simple little box.