Girls dating fat guys

The most important element to me is that no matter my size, I’m now twice as confident in my body than I was as a size 10.When I was thinner I was more self-conscious, less confident around men and much more uptight.At size 10, when I looked in the mirror all I thought was ‘could do better’.

My crushes as an overweight girl started when I was in elementary school. It began as an odd acquaintanceship with Mike in my freshman year of high school. Though the compliments were strange, they were detail-oriented and weren’t backhanded. Another part of me said that he was just taunting me.

I was afraid of getting hurt if he wasn’t actually interested in me. Being open and honest with myself, let alone anybody else, was terrifying. I can only remember through the eyes of an obese, insecure teen girl.

Though it would be interesting to know for certain, I’m glad I never clarified my relationship with Mike.

I’ve never bought into the lie, popular with some elements of the media, that everything will be better when you’re thin.

But, as a single woman trying everything I can to increase my chances of finding The One, I was interested to see how much of an issue size is for single men.

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