Dyd interview with dating gurus
Second, because I am sick to death of being hit on by guys using these kind of stupid techniques.
But people should reserve those judgments for someone they know.
They think they have to hold on to it and chase it.
I deal with women every day who are literally chasing men who aren’t taking them seriously or investing in them. It’s coming from the idea that he can hit up so many people, so he won’t be interested in me. It’s important to connect with the person you end up with, but it’s not a reason to invest in someone. You invest in someone based on how much they invest in you. You become a better dater when you have a truly fulfilling life that is not dependent on someone else. I think it comes down to this: A woman doesn’t really need a man to tell her that he isn’t interested; it’s clear that he isn’t if he hasn’t been texting.
Maybe they don’t get a response, but that doesn’t matter.
Just the possibility gives them a sense of entitlement. Because so many men act like this — they don’t go on dates and are flaky — someone comes along that they have a connection with, they massively overvalue that connection.