Dating with arab
Shame is not taken lightly in Arab cultures, and if an Arab does something embarrassing or shameful, it not only affects her but her whole family as well.
Although men and women are allowed to choose their own partners, parents are still involved in the process.
They usually organize events such as speed-dating sessions and matrimonial dinners where they can meet with potential mates in a highly monitored environment.
However, people are still able to meet through online sites where they can chat and meet people through mutual friends.
” It’s where the joke of Arab women saying “enta awal wahad fi hayati” comes from, Arab women feel the need to lie regarding their romantic history in order to make Arab men feel special… Having been with another person makes you damaged goods, and while not every man carries these backwards ideologies, many still do (see the Scoop Empire comments).
When dating outside the Arab society and even diving into a more liberal white society, Arab women don’t have to face judgement, lie about their history, or pretend to be a delicate flower that hasn’t experienced life, or worry about overshadowing an Arab man’s ego.